Dating in the '09

The roles have DEFINITELY changed in dating! I remember when you were looked at as a slut or something if you were known to give it up too early. Men say in mixed company, "...oh I don't judge a woman base on that, she is just mature and progressive in her sexuality. blah blah blah" Whatever. No dude wants to think his lady gives every dude she meets the same lovin he's gettin. He wants to feel...special. "She only a freak for big daddy"..... "I taught her that" Now you have girls not even a full 15 years of age taking pictures of their snap boxes and texting it to boys because they feel like if they don't, boys won't like them. Boys don't have to pursue anymore......the girls are all over it. Among the adults, men don't have to court you or show any interest in you other than talking to you...or really sending an occasional text. There is no woo & pursue. Then you wonder why when your knees get tired of chasing drawls and you get a little lady she has your balls in a jar by the nightstand. You got to pay the cost to be the boss. She courted you. She pursued you. Did all those freaky thangs she said she would only do for love...she did it for you. She wore you down man...and now she's the boss. Well since we the ladies are now in a new position I have taken to judging men like they used to do us. If a man even tries to get you to give it up on the first date....he shall be labeled a man whore. Good for nothing but physical jollies. Didn't want to take the time to get to know a girl or find out if she is diseased or just plain crazy? You clearly don't display good judgment skills. Most men don't mind this so it is a win win situation. Well not if you don't give up what Steve Harvey calls the cookie. Or God forbid the man actually thinks this is a good way to start a meaningful relationship. I for one will never take a man seriously after he displays his man whorish ways on an early date. And I will further be like the men of yore by not disclosing this fact to any man even if they ask. Hey if we got to have the balls and the boobs we might as well use them both for only our advantage.